Authored by Dr. David Alter
In the last blog I introduced the idea of adaptive flexibility as a core skill to restoring health. Learning to be adaptive allows you to adjust to life’s challenges in ways that keep symptom patterns from getting to firmly established. Where can you turn to learn about revving up your adaptive flexibility?
My patients and I have found it helpful to draw upon the “wisdom of the body.” Look at how the wisdom of your cells can be tapped to improve your health by adopting the four questions that each cell in our body uses to maintain its health.
We are made up of several trillion cells that are interconnected with one another. The patterns of interaction among and within these cells are unimaginably complex. And yet, the vast majority of the time, this vast network of interconnected cells hums along in ways that allow you to smoothly carry out the activities of your daily life. Cells actively regulate their boundary (i.e., the cellular membrane) with the world around them by asking four basic questions that you can learn to apply to yourself as you regulate your relationship to yourself and to the world around you.
The Four Basic Health Restoring Questions – Brought to you courtesy of your Cellular Mind!
- Cell: What is in my external environment that is toxic to my health and well-being that I need to keep out? You: Am I engaging in relationships or situations that hurt me, that drain my energy, that put me down, that make me sick? What are they?
- Cell: What is within my internal environment that is toxic to my health and well-being that I need to release and let go of? You: Am I carrying around expectations, beliefs, attitudes, or memories of events from my past that are poisoning me? What are they?
- Cell: What is in my external environment that is essential to my health and well-being that I need to absorb to nourish me? You: Are there resources, hopes, aspirations, opportunities, or activities that would be supportive of my health and well-being that are available but that I have not risked seeking out? What are they?
- Cell: What is in my internal environment that is essential to my health and well-being that I need to learn to keep in because it nourishes me in fundamental ways? You: Are there resources, qualities, desires, preferences and practices that I know are self-nurturing that I overlook, defer, or minimize the importance of, to the detriment of my overall health? What are they?

This coming month, take the time to ask yourself these four questions. Set aside 20 minutes several times per week, morning or evening, at a time when you will be free from interruptions, to consider the four basic questions and record your responses. The responses you obtain may be verbal, they may be feelings or they may be bodily sensations. After you discover initial answers to these core questions, use them as a blue print sent to you courtesy of your body’s wisdom. Recognizing that initial answers to the questions arose from within you can be a sign that you have the internal resources needed to begin to implement the changes suggested by your body’s wisdom. The prize is a healthier and balanced YOU. Let me know what you find!


At first, the symptom pattern of chronic pain may seem unrelated to a pattern involving gut dysfunction, (Irritable Bowel Syndrome, for example), but all symptom patterns represent a loss of adaptive flexibility of the mind and body. Adaptive flexibility involves the capacity to adjust to the ever-changing circumstances of your life while maintaining a steady sense of balance and control in your life. The greater your ability to adjust and adapt to the circumstances of your life the greater the likelihood that you would describe yourself as healthy. And the more you can learn to increase your adaptive flexibility, the more likely you are to regain or restore your health.
Sounds strange? Think for a few moments about the kinds of suggestions we hear or give ourselves each day and you’ll recognize they are still suggestions about improving our ability to adjust and adapt in ways that are not all that different from what Hippocrates might have advised a patient in Greece 2500 years ago: “I’ve got to stop burning the candle at both ends;” “I should eat less and exercise more;” “I’ve got to stop picking the same type of relationship partner over and over again;” “I have to take some risks if my situation is ever going to change;” “I have to get ‘in touch’ with my feelings;” “I have to give more and expect less;” “I have to over-extend less and take better care of myself.” “I have to live my life with integrity that is consistent with my basic values.” Each statement reflects the recognition that you have gotten stuck in a repeating pattern of functioning that is negatively affecting your health. Repeating unhealthy patterns of living is the primary sign of the loss of adaptive flexibility, and often predicts that a loss of physical, emotional or mental health will soon follow.