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Brought to you by Harriet Kohen, MSW, LICSW

Routines are soothing. Think about babies and how they are wired for feeding and sleeping routines.  Routines can allow the scariness and separation of bedtime to be absorbed by predicable schedules and activities for most toddlers and school age children. Routines and rituals can mean the difference between healing sleep and hours of wakefulness.

Routines decrease anxiety and lowers resistance to regular tasks, according to Dr. Howard. Tooth brushing and taking out the trash become expected. Routines also send important messages to children and reinforce a sense of belonging. When a family experiences major stress such as a job loss or chronic illness, routines provide stability.

Family without routines tends to be chaotic. Perhaps this is due to high levels of parental stress pr depression or anxiety in a parent.

Family meals, consistent homework times, and rules about curfews tend to promote academic success and lessen behavioral problems for adolescents.

Routines also help children stay organized so they can fit in exercise, socializing and faith-based programs. They protect children feel more confident about their daily life.

Routines convey value or meaning and help to communicate to children what’s important to the family. Parents are encouraged to explain routines in a clear way especially to children who are anxious. For example, instead of saying you’ll “try” to do something, just do it or explain why it can’t be done and make alternate plans.

Routines can be simple so they can be easily repeated. If your child becomes rigid about routines, this could be a coping strategy, especially if your child is 2-7 years old. You can always visit with your pediatrician if you’re concerned.

Although rituals and routines overlap, a routine is something done the same way over and over and a ritual is a routine with symbolic value.

If you would like to consult about ways to introduce or streamline routines and rituals in your family, consider a consult with Harriet Kohen, LICSW or Anne Ford, LICSW at Partners in Healing at 763-546-5797. WE CAN HELP.

*Pediatric News, November 2011.


Understanding the “Message” of Children’s BehaviorDid you know that children’s and adolescent’s behaviors can talk? 

• “I hate school!”

• “I forgot my homework—again.”

• “My stomach hurts; do I have to go to school?”

At the Institute for Brain Behavior Integration (IBBI) we believe that children and adolescents often use their behaviors to tell us that something is not quite right. Our brains are made up of a series of interacting modules:

• auditory and visual processing
• attention and memory
• complex problem solving
• reading and language
• motor skills

Learning requires these modules to work in concert in order to produce a written, oral, or behavioral response.  A breakdown in one of these areas can interfere with your child’s ability to learn and achieve academic success.  And, since children and many adolescents are not aware of how their brains work, they use their behaviors to communicate with their parents. Most often, defiance and noncompliance regarding homework can be ‘tip-off’s’ that they have an undiagnosed learning disability that can give rise to depression if not recognized.

How Can You Tell if Your Child or Adolescent May have a Learning Disability

Here are some simple clues:

Poor Handwriting
• Tends to be clumsy
• Meltdowns while doing homework
• Reads in a slow and choppy manner
• Difficulty sounding out and spelling words
• Delays in fine and gross motor skills
• Family history of learning disabilities
• Speaks and/or writes in short, choppy sentences
• Homework is returned with many comments from the teacher

Substance Abuse, Depression & Learning

It is well documented that learning disabilities and substance abuse go hand-in-hand. Adolescents with an undiagnosed learning disability tend to personalize their academic underachievement rather than attribute it to how their brain processes information. They may develop depression-generating thoughts such as:

What’s wrong with ME? How could I be so stupid? I am such a loser.

When thoughts such as these go unchecked, they begin to take on a life of their own and can negatively shape a child’s self-perception. By adolescence, negative thoughts and habits may have become ingrained, affecting friend choices as well as their relationship with their parents. Adolescents with undiagnosed learning disabilities not only have higher rates of depression, their rate of substance abuse is also much higher than that of their peers.

How a Neuropsychological Evaluation Can Help

An evaluation at the Institute for Brain-Behavior Integration can be an important step in putting your child or adolescent back on a path to success.  IBBI evaluations focus on the pathways between brain functioning and daily behavioral functioning. We work to identify resources that help clients improve day-to-day functioning by improving the integrative functions of the brain through various therapy tools we utilize. This can result in positive changes to school performance, relationship health in families and with peers, and benefit social relating skills. 

By Nancy Foster, PhD


Concerned about your child’s moods: Feeling Sad or Being Depressed: What’s the difference?It can be difficult to tell the difference between sadness and depression in children and adolescents because they share many common features. For example, a loss of interest in usual activities, sleep problems, body aches and pains, and problems in school or with peers are some of the more typical problems seen in children and adolescents who are either sad or depressed. However, feeling sad is a normal reaction to a loss or an unexpected stressor, such as the death of a grandparent or an impending transition (e.g., moving or changing schools).

For children who are sad, behavioral symptoms are usually time-limited because children typically have the internal resources to manage their feelings and to move beyond their sadness. On the contrary, for children and adolescents who are depressed, these symptoms may last two or more weeks. In other words, they don’t just ‘get over it’.  It is difficult for them to see the light at the end of the tunnel. This is also true for children and teens who live with chronic or life threatening illnesses, or those who have experienced significant trauma in their lives.

As a child and adolescent therapist, part of my job is help parents and their children to distinguish between sadness and depression. One critical distinction between the two is the presence of suicidal thoughts and plans. It is also important to determine how long the child has been experiencing these emotional and behavioral symptoms. This is why I place an emphasis on partnering with parents because they often provide useful information. Their observations are critical to understanding a child’s or adolescent’s mood and how the  family functions. After all, children live in families!

Three Effective Treatment Strategies

In my practice, I integrate three effective strategies that help children and adolescents to cope with their depression.

  1. Self-hypnosis—a tool used to help children create a shift in their thinking and to manage negative moods
  2. Biofeedback—can show children how their bodies react to negative thoughts.
  3. Creative Expressive Therapies—depending on the child’s interests, I like to integrate drawing, play, and expressive writing into the therapeutic process

The Treatment Benefits

Helping children and adolescents learn new ways of coping has many positive and lasting effects:

• less family conflict
• increased school attendance
• better academic performance
• more positive social interactions
• alleviation of aches and pains
• improved coping strategies

If you are having a difficult time determining if your child is sad or depressed, make an appointment to partner with me to help your child address their concerns.  Call me at 763-546-5797.

By Harriet Kohen, MSW, LICSW


We are very happy to welcome Anne J. Ford, MSW, LICSW, to Partners in Healing of Minneapolis.  Anne brings over 15 years of therapeutic experience working with children, teenagers, parents, adults, couples and groups.  She specializes in ADHD, High Functioning Autism and Asperger's syndrome.  To schedule with Anne J. Ford, please contact us at 763-546-5797 or info@pih-mpls.com. 


As Fall begins, families gear up for many transitions that traditionally happen at this time of year. Some children will begin school for the first time, some will start or transfer to a new school, which can mean leaving old friends, and some children begin junior or senior high.  The lazy days of summer are over. There are new schedules to follow, an increased pace of life with sports, clubs, socializing and homework.  How can parents support their children during these times when stress and worry can develop and before new routines are created? 

To help ease these transitions:

  • Review all the information the school sends about special dates, bus schedules, after school activities, emergency forms and class room assignments.
  • Record important dates on the family calendar so that you can juggle your schedule, especially if you have children in more than one school.
  • Re-establish bedtime and meal routines and stress the importance of getting adequate rest.
  • Reduce TV and non-homework electronic time to 2 hours or less per week.
  • Support your child’s visit to their new school and visit it with them if possible.
  • Help your child organize their workspace for homework.
  • And if your child is stressed, use your best listening skills. Do not overreact. Remain calm and positive. Reinforce your child’s ability to cope.

How parents can help when problems arise.
If your child demonstrates problems that seem extreme in nature or go on for an extended period, you may want to contact the school to set up an appointment to meet with your child’s teachers and school counselor. They may be able to offer direct or indirect support that will help identify and reduce the presenting problem. They may also suggest other resources within the school and the community to help you address the situation.
While children can display a variety of behaviors, it is generally wise not to over-interpret those behaviors. More often than not, time and a few intervention strategies will remedy the problem. Most children are wonderfully resilient and, with your support and encouragement, will thrive throughout their school experience.

However, when these problems persist and solutions seem unavailable, know that our knowledgeable staff of child, adolescent and family therapists are available to meet your needs.  Give us a call so we can extend our help to you.

By Harriet Kohen, MA, LICSW

Resources
Clark, L. (1996). SOS: Help for parents (2nd ed.). Berkley, CA: Parents’ Press. ISBN: 0935111204.
Dawson, M. P. (2004). Homework: A guide for parents. In A. Canter, L. Paige, M. Roth, I. Romero, & S. Carroll (Eds.), Helping children at home and school II: Handouts for families and educators. Bethesda, MD: National Association of School Psychologists.
Rimm, S. (1996). Dr. Sylvia Rimm’s smart parenting: How to raise a happy, achieving child. New York: Crown. ASIN: 0517700638.
Some of this material was reprinted from Back-to School Transitions: Tips for Parents,             
by Ted Feinberg, EdD, NCSP, & Katherine C. Cowan National Association of School Psychologists



(Brought to you by Harriet Kohen, MSW, LICSW)

Parents, are you wondering how to foster greater self regulation skills in your children? David Walsh, founder of the National Institute on the Media and the Family, addresses this question in a recent article in the Star Tribune. I found it helpful for thinking about ways to coach parents to develop strategies to encourage more resilient children by understanding their developmental needs.  Who's in charge in your family?

Need more guidance with your kids?  Schedule an appointment with Harriet Kohen at 763-546-5797 or info@pih-mpls.com

HARNESS KIDS' BRAIN POWER

Julie Pfitziner, Star Tribune
David Walsh studies the brains of today's kids, a task their own parents might be reluctant to do.  Walsh, founder of the National Institute on Media and the Family and author of several books, has become an internationally known family-life expert and a go-to source for parents looking to better understand their children throughout their various ages and stages, from newborn to teenager.

Walsh, who lives in Minneapolis, has a new book called Smart Parenting, Smarter Kids: The One Brain Book You Need to Help Your Child Grow Brighter, Healthier and Happier (Free Press, 292 pages, $25), which tackles the subject of brain development as it relates to topics including intelligence, memory, connection, exercise and the impact of technology.

We asked Walsh to comment on a few of many key messages in his book on how, by acquiring greater understanding of the many facets of their child's brain, parents can enhance their parenting skills.

"A constant drumbeat of 'more, fast, easy and fun' undermines 21st-century parents' attempts to foster self-discipline in their children."

Walsh: The unintended consequence of the self-esteem movement, launched by the publication of "The Psychology of Self-Esteem" by Nathaniel Branden in 1969, is that parents started to develop an allergic reaction to kids feeling bad. This has led to an epidemic of what I call discipline deficit disorder in kids: distraction, disrespect, impatience, need for instant gratification, sense of entitlement, unrealistic expectations and self-centeredness.

If we constantly praise our kids, it can make them risk-averse. For example, if children are repeatedly told how smart they are, they want to maintain their identity as being smart. They won't want to risk doing something they might not be good at for fear of losing that identity. Kids can't control their innate ability, but they do have control over their efforts. And if we praise them for their efforts, they will work harder.

"The key to a child's language success is conversation. Social interaction with a child is critical for any number of reasons, and language is an essential ingredient."

Walsh: There are so many opportunities for parents to engage their child in conversation, and it is especially important for kids to learn how to express themselves, to spend time talking face-to-face and to learn how to read nonverbal cues and tone of voice. We need practice developing these skills and the time to do it is when you are growing up.

None of these skills are activated when we're doing online communication, which is one of the reasons it is so easy for kids to say mean things to each other online. I'm not against technology, but for some kids, technology is taking over their lives. I have an example in the book of a 12-year-old girl named Meaghan who got to the point where she was sending 1,000 texts per day.

Be clear with kids that technology can have a place in the world, but there have to be tech-free zones imposed around the dinner table and during family activities.

"Whatever the brain does a lot of is what the brain gets good at."

Walsh: There are two types of attention: reactive, which is an automatic response to a situation, and focused, which is important for critical thinking. There are so many triggers for reactive thinking. That is why I encourage parents to limit the distractions of media and technology.

Some of the classic games such as "I Spy" or "Where's Waldo" can really help kids develop focused attention. Any kind of sustained concentration helps build memory -- it's like building scaffolds and the more elaborate the scaffolding is, the more places the child has to build upon.

"While we've known for a long time that exercise builds strong muscles and a healthy heart, neuroscientists have found that moving and exercising our muscles directly builds better brains."


Walsh: Our brains -- which are the master control for our entire bodies -- don't do well with all the sedentary activity we have in our lives. When we exercise, our brains are energized. Recent research reveals the brain-derived neurotrophic factor, a chemical which is likened to "Miracle-Gro for the brain," is transported when our hearts are beating vigorously during physical activity, which can then strengthen the neurons in our brains. If we get kids moving, we are helping them to improve their brain function.


Brought to you by Harriet Kohen, MSW, LICSW

Children lose parents and parents lose children. Grief is the normal reaction after a loved one passes.  I have found these tips from Dr. Bruce Perry for adults who are consoling children to be useful and instructive. Children learn from our willingness to acknowledge our feelings after a loss, and to honor their experience. Often times they have questions we can easily answer to reduce their worries. Grief is normal, but if emotional or behavioral problems are extreme, persist beyond six months, or compromise the child's capacity to learn, professional help is advised.  Harriet Kohen can help.

Death and Loss:  Helping Children Manage Their Grief
By Bruce D.  Perry, M.D., Ph.D.

 "When is my mommy  coming home from heaven? I've been waiting and waiting."
                                     —Question asked by 5-year-old whose mother has just died.

The loss of a loved one is like an earthquake that fractures our emotional landscape. Although death is the most permanent loss we face, there are other forms of loss  that can be devastating as well. The most common for children are moving  and divorce. When adults decide to move or separate, usually after anticipating  and gradually adjusting to the transition, children have no choice but  to accept their decision. Since children have less time and fewer skills  to help them adjust to these situations, they are more vulnerable to loss  than adults. 

Pain  and Loss

The pain of loss  is related to the nature of the transition. When loss is sudden and unexpected,  there is much less time for the child to begin adjusting. The anticipated  death, separation, or move is easier because there has been time to think,  anticipate, mourn, and slowly reshape relationships. Gradual, predictable  transitions, though painful, make loss easier to deal with. The pain from loss  is also related to the nature of the relationship. A child experiences  the most distress when he is close to and dependent upon the one he is  separated from. If the move or the separation takes the child away from  the loved one, he may experience the same intensity of pain as if this  were a death.  Sometimes the teacher  is the adult most aware of the child's pain. She sees the sadness, the  lethargy, and the learning difficulties. Loss affects a child's capacity  to thrive in learning and social settings. Parents, often coping with  the same loss, may underestimate the impact of the separation, move, or  death on the child, thinking, "children are resilient." Underestimating  the vulnerability of the grieving child actually prolongs the child's  pain and increases the probability that the effects of the loss will persist.

The  Grieving Process 

Grief is a process  that reshapes our inner world following loss. It involves a set of emotional,  cognitive, behavioral, and physical reactions that can vary depending  upon the individual and the nature of the loss. During the grieving process,  there are two central challenges for the child: (1) processing the actual  event ("What is cancer?" "Can you catch it too?") and (2) coping with  the loss of the loved one ("I want Daddy to take me to school"). In the  weeks immediately following the loss, the child often experiences disturbing  thoughts. The primary emotion during this time is fear — fear of the unknown,  fear of the future. Over time, the child's thoughts will be dominated  by loss and feelings of sadness.  There is no "best"  way to grieve, and there are no cookbook approaches to taking the pain  away from children. Children of different ages have different styles of  adapting and different abilities to understand abstract concepts such  as death, love, and marriage. The 4-year-old may have little appreciation  of the finality of death or why divorced couples do not take vacations  together. In addition, each child has an individual style of coping. Some  children will not talk much, and some will talk about it to strangers.  Sally may announce to a substitute teacher, "My mother is dead." Other  children in Sally's class may become extremely fearful about losing their  own parents.  Grief is normal,  but if emotional or behavioral problems are extreme, persist beyond six  months, or compromise the child's capacity to learn, professional help  is advised.

Tips  for Teaching: Talking About Loss With Children 

  • Don't be afraid  to talk about death or loss. Children do not benefit from "not thinking  about it" or "putting it out of their minds." Share important facts  about the event and try to get a sense of what the children think about  it and about death in general.
  • Share some of  your own feelings and thoughts. Sometimes children act as if they have  not heard anything you have said, but they have. Remember that in the  midst of distressing experiences, children are not very capable of processing  complex or abstract information. Be prepared to repeat the same information  again and again.
  • Invite children  to talk about feelings they have regarding the event or death. Then  you can let them take the lead as to when, how long, and how much this  is discussed. If you sense that one or more of the children are becoming  over-focused on these issues, redirect the discussion in a way that  will not disrupt the class or impact the affected child.
  • During these  initial conversations, try to understand what the children think about  divorce or death. Do they have a view of afterlife? Do they place blame  for divorce on one party or another? The more you understand about how  the children think about death or divorce, the easier it will be for  you to talk about it in a meaningful way.
  • If children sense  that you are upset by the loss, they may not bring the topic up even  when they want to. Be a good role model, showing children how to express  emotions in a healthy and nondisruptive fashion. It can be very helpful  for children to know that you have been affected by the event and that  you are willing to talk about how you feel.
  • Help the children  understand how devastated their classmate feels. Explain that this child  may be more tired than usual, more irritable, and less interested in  playing. Advise them that their classmate may want to talk about the  loss and encourage them to listen
  • Tell the children  that this is a completely out-of-bounds topic for teasing. You can teach  the children to respect the grieving process and avoid the emotional  tender spots for a child. Also help children understand that this will  be a long process and a major challenge for their classmate.
  • To share your  experiences regarding this topic with your colleagues, visit the Kids  in Crisis online discussion group.        

The normal  grief process may include: 

  • denial 
  • emotional  numbing
  • anger,  irritability, and episodic rage
  • fear and characteristic rushes of anxiety (pangs)
  • confusion
  • difficulty  sleeping
  • regressive  behaviors
  • physical  complaints such as "stomachaches" or headaches
  • changes  in appetite (overeating or lack of interest in food)
  • transient visual or auditory misperceptions of the loved one's image  or voice

Article Cited: http://teacher.scholastic.com/professional/bruceperry/death_and_loss.htm#author This article  originally appeared in Early Childhood Today

 


Brought to you by Harriet Kohen, LICSW

I have learned over the years that kids have plenty to say.  I thought you would enjoy this article by Jeff Opdyke in the Wall Street Journal.

By JEFF D. OPDYKE

Wall Street Journal  November 28, 2010I picked up my 14-year-old son from school two weeks ago. I smiled at him. He laughed...and then he got mad.
That morning, an orthodontist had slapped braces on my teeth. I smiled to show my son, who is just weeks away from getting his braces off. While at first he thought it was funny that Dad had braces too, he quickly realized I'd gotten the clear braces; his are full-metal jacket.

"How much extra was that?" he asked. I told him $500. "Why didn't I get those? Why do I have to get the ugly braces and you get the ones that don't look as bad?" He was miffed, and raised the topic again with his mom that night.

Later, as I thought more about it, I started to realize that something is wrong with this picture. Why does my son believe -- no, assume -- that he and I should spend the same amount of money on our respective braces.

The answer, I also realized, is because of the way I've raised him, and it was yet another illustration of something I (and readers) have mentioned before: the blurring of the lines between so many parents and children. Many kids these days see themselves as fully empowered members of the family, with opinions that carry just as much weight as their parents' opinions do.

That's not always bad. But we parents today have gone overboard. We have inadvertently created kids who think they have the power to dictate what happens in the family -- from where we go to eat to where we vacation to the kinds of braces we each deserve.  It's time, I would argue, to take back control.
Most parents my age -- I'll be 45 in January -- grew up in a time when our choices were limited to one: Whatever Mom and Dad said you were doing, you did.                                                                If my grandparents, who raised me in South Louisiana, said that we were going to visit my uncle in Mississippi over the weekend, I had no other option but to go to Mississippi, no matter how much I didn't want to. If they said Friday night dinner was at the Piccadilly restaurant, I couldn't counter with some other restaurant I might want to eat at instead. It wouldn't have dawned on me to even try.
 
But that's not how it always goes today.

Moms and dads today often play the role of friend instead of parent. Many of us, no doubt, want to avoid giving our kids the sense of powerlessness, and the distance, we might have felt with our own parents. But in doing so, we've inadvertently given our kids a sense of power that we may one day come to rue.

A friend of mine, for example, says that his teenage daughter thinks it is "monumentally unfair that her computer isn't quite as powerful as the one I have for work." And like me, he realizes he brought this on himself.

"Too many times I've asked her for input in decisions she should have no say in," he says. "I should just get her a computer rather than ask, 'Is this one good enough?' There is a line between getting input and letting her dictate, and at times, I've not drawn that line sharply enough."

To be clear, this isn't about kids who are bratty, obnoxious or harbor a sense of entitlement. These aren't bad kids. It's just that many of today's generation of youngsters have grown up in a world where their opinions matter. A lot.

The question now is what do we do with the power-hungry monsters we have created? How do we fix them?

Many parents, I know, will fume about this column. They will insist that kids should never be allowed to define expectations -- particularly when it comes to how the family spends money. Mom and Dad make those decisions, no questions asked. The problem isn't one of balance, they'll say. Kids are kids and parents are parents, and you shouldn't mix the two.

I agree...up to a point. Despite my lamenting in this column, I don't think we parents should impose every one of our choices on our children without their input. Kids need to feel like they have a voice, and that the voice is heard. Eventually, it will help them learn how to make smart decisions -- and the consequences of making not-so-smart ones.

At the same time, it isn't good for them to feel in control, either. They don't want all that power, even if they think they do. They want the security of somebody else making decisions. They need to know that parents make the rules.

That's the balance I need to find, and that has too often been lacking in my house. To offer a simple example: If I'm craving Greek for dinner and my son or daughter isn't, I want them to express that; it's a lesson in learning to defend your desires and not to accept what everyone else around you is pushing.

That doesn't mean I'll change my mind. And it doesn't mean we won't eat Greek that night. But, then again, I might say to one of my kids, "OK; your call tonight. You get to choose."

For those of us who have gone too far, it's important to scale back the authority we've given our children. But not all the way.

The decisions kids make, for instance, might be relatively rare events that they come to see as "special." Maybe it's the opportunity once a month to have complete control over the family's Friday night plans -- the restaurant you go to, the movie you see. Maybe it's giving your kids three vacation options to choose from. Maybe it's regularly letting them voice their opinions about anything they want, with no guarantees that Mom and Dad will agree with them. But we'll listen.

That's what I have started to do. Before it's too late, I am determined to revoke the authority I have too often ceded to my kids. If I want to spend $500 extra on clear braces that my son didn't get...hey, it's my money and my choice.

Not his.


Harriet Kohen, MSW, LICSW has an extensive and rich background working with school age children, adolescents, and their families experiencing anxiety, including phobias and habit problems, depression, and recovering from traumatic events. She also enjoys working with adults. She w...orks from a holistic perspective with youth and families where a member has a serious health condition and may want to focus on family relationships, explore the meaning of their life, or address particular issues related to their diagnosis or treatment. Harriet uses biofeedback based relaxation and clinical hypnosis, poetry therapy and expressive arts. She is the President-Elect of the Minnesota Society for Clinical Social Work. Plus, she's a lot of fun to be with!


(Brought to you by Harriet Kohen, MSW, LICSW)

So you thought that if your child sat at a desk or the kitchen table all night, she would get her homework done.  New evidence suggests that changing locations improves the brain’s ability to retain new information.  I thought that you would enjoy this article from the New York Times Science section entitled “Forget What You Know About Good Study Habits” to get some tips on learning better study habits. 

Does your child have anxiety about school performance, disrupting his sleep and eating habits?  I can help you and your child with that.  Just give me a call at 763-546-5797 to schedule.  Have a great school year everybody!  

Forget What You Know About Good Study Habits

Every September, millions of parents try a kind of psychological witchcraft, to transform their summer-glazed campers into fall students, their video-bugs into bookworms. Advice is cheap and all too familiar: Clear a quiet work space. Stick to a homework schedule. Set goals. Set boundaries. Do not bribe (except in emergencies).

And check out the classroom. Does Junior’s learning style match the new teacher’s approach? Or the school’s philosophy? Maybe the child isn’t “a good fit” for the school.

Such theories have developed in part because of sketchy education research that doesn’t offer clear guidance. Student traits and teaching styles surely interact; so do personalities and at-home rules. The trouble is, no one can predict how.

Yet there are effective approaches to learning, at least for those who are motivated. In recent years, cognitive scientists have shown that a few simple techniques can reliably improve what matters most: how much a student learns from studying.

The findings can help anyone, from a fourth grader doing long division to a retiree taking on a new language. But they directly contradict much of the common wisdom about good study habits, and they have not caught on.

For instance, instead of sticking to one study location, simply alternating the room where a person studies improves retention. So does studying distinct but related skills or concepts in one sitting, rather than focusing intensely on a single thing.

“We have known these principles for some time, and it’s intriguing that schools don’t pick them up, or that people don’t learn them by trial and error,” said Robert A. Bjork, a psychologist at the University of California, Los Angeles. “Instead, we walk around with all sorts of unexamined beliefs about what works that are mistaken.”

Take the notion that children have specific learning styles, that some are “visual learners” and others are auditory; some are “left-brain” students, others “right-brain.” In a recent review of the relevant research, published in the journal Psychological Science in the Public Interest, a team of psychologists found almost zero support for such ideas. “The contrast between the enormous popularity of the learning-styles approach within education and the lack of credible evidence for its utility is, in our opinion, striking and disturbing,” the researchers concluded.

Ditto for teaching styles, researchers say. Some excellent instructors caper in front of the blackboard like summer-theater Falstaffs; others are reserved to the point of shyness. “We have yet to identify the common threads between teachers who create a constructive learning atmosphere,” said Daniel T. Willingham, a psychologist at the University of Virginia and author of the book “Why Don’t Students Like School?"

But individual learning is another matter, and psychologists have discovered that some of the most hallowed advice on study habits is flat wrong. For instance, many study skills courses insist that students find a specific place, a study room or a quiet corner of the library, to take their work. The research finds just the opposite. In one classic 1978 experiment, psychologists found that college students who studied a list of 40 vocabulary words in two different rooms — one windowless and cluttered, the other modern, with a view on a courtyard — did far better on a test than students who studied the words twice, in the same room. Later studies have confirmed the finding, for a variety of topics.

The brain makes subtle associations between what it is studying and the background sensations it has at the time, the authors say, regardless of whether those perceptions are conscious. It colors the terms of the Versailles Treaty with the wasted fluorescent glow of the dorm study room, say; or the elements of the Marshall Plan with the jade-curtain shade of the willow tree in the backyard. Forcing the brain to make multiple associations with the same material may, in effect, give that information more neural scaffolding.

“What we think is happening here is that, when the outside context is varied, the information is enriched, and this slows down forgetting,” said Dr. Bjork, the senior author of the two-room experiment.

Varying the type of material studied in a single sitting — alternating, for example, among vocabulary, reading and speaking in a new language — seems to leave a deeper impression on the brain than does concentrating on just one skill at a time. Musicians have known this for years, and their practice sessions often include a mix of scales, musical pieces and rhythmic work. Many athletes, too, routinely mix their workouts with strength, speed and skill drills.

The advantages of this approach to studying can be striking, in some topic areas. In a study recently posted online by the journal Applied Cognitive Psychology, Doug Rohrer and Kelli Taylor of the University of South Florida taught a group of fourth graders four equations, each to calculate a different dimension of a prism. Half of the children learned by studying repeated examples of one equation, say, calculating the number of prism faces when given the number of sides at the base, then moving on to the next type of calculation, studying repeated examples of that. The other half studied mixed problem sets, which included examples all four types of calculations grouped together. Both groups solved sample problems along the way, as they studied.

A day later, the researchers gave all of the students a test on the material, presenting new problems of the same type. The children who had studied mixed sets did twice as well as the others, outscoring them 77 percent to 38 percent. The researchers have found the same in experiments involving adults and younger children.

“When students see a list of problems, all of the same kind, they know the strategy to use before they even read the problem,” said Dr. Rohrer. “That’s like riding a bike with training wheels.” With mixed practice, he added, “each problem is different from the last one, which means kids must learn how to choose the appropriate procedure — just like they had to do on the test.”

These findings extend well beyond math, even to aesthetic intuitive learning. In an experiment published last month in the journal Psychology and Aging, researchers found that college students and adults of retirement age were better able to distinguish the painting styles of 12 unfamiliar artists after viewing mixed collections (assortments, including works from all 12) than after viewing a dozen works from one artist, all together, then moving on to the next painter.

The finding undermines the common assumption that intensive immersion is the best way to really master a particular genre, or type of creative work, said Nate Kornell, a psychologist at Williams College and the lead author of the study. “What seems to be happening in this case is that the brain is picking up deeper patterns when seeing assortments of paintings; it’s picking up what’s similar and what’s different about them,” often subconsciously.

Cognitive scientists do not deny that honest-to-goodness cramming can lead to a better grade on a given exam. But hurriedly jam-packing a brain is akin to speed-packing a cheap suitcase, as most students quickly learn — it holds its new load for a while, then most everything falls out.

“With many students, it’s not like they can’t remember the material” when they move to a more advanced class, said Henry L. Roediger III, a psychologist at Washington University in St. Louis. “It’s like they’ve never seen it before.”

When the neural suitcase is packed carefully and gradually, it holds its contents for far, far longer. An hour of study tonight, an hour on the weekend, another session a week from now: such so-called spacing improves later recall, without requiring students to put in more overall study effort or pay more attention, dozens of studies have found.

No one knows for sure why. It may be that the brain, when it revisits material at a later time, has to relearn some of what it has absorbed before adding new stuff — and that that process is itself self-reinforcing.

“The idea is that forgetting is the friend of learning,” said Dr. Kornell. “When you forget something, it allows you to relearn, and do so effectively, the next time you see it.”

That’s one reason cognitive scientists see testing itself — or practice tests and quizzes — as a powerful tool of learning, rather than merely assessment. The process of retrieving an idea is not like pulling a book from a shelf; it seems to fundamentally alter the way the information is subsequently stored, making it far more accessible in the future.

Dr. Roediger uses the analogy of the Heisenberg uncertainty principle in physics, which holds that the act of measuring a property of a particle (position, for example) reduces the accuracy with which you can know another property (momentum, for example): “Testing not only measures knowledge but changes it,” he says — and, happily, in the direction of more certainty, not less.

In one of his own experiments, Dr. Roediger and Jeffrey Karpicke, also of Washington University, had college students study science passages from a reading comprehension test, in short study periods. When students studied the same material twice, in back-to-back sessions, they did very well on a test given immediately afterward, then began to forget the material.

But if they studied the passage just once and did a practice test in the second session, they did very well on one test two days later, and another given a week later.

“Testing has such bad connotation; people think of standardized testing or teaching to the test,” Dr. Roediger said. “Maybe we need to call it something else, but this is one of the most powerful learning tools we have.”

Of course, one reason the thought of testing tightens people’s stomachs is that tests are so often hard. Paradoxically, it is just this difficulty that makes them such effective study tools, research suggests. The harder it is to remember something, the harder it is to later forget. This effect, which researchers call “desirable difficulty,” is evident in daily life. The name of the actor who played Linc in “The Mod Squad”? Francie’s brother in “A Tree Grows in Brooklyn”? The name of the co-discoverer, with Newton, of calculus?

The more mental sweat it takes to dig it out, the more securely it will be subsequently anchored.

None of which is to suggest that these techniques — alternating study environments, mixing content, spacing study sessions, self-testing or all the above — will turn a grade-A slacker into a grade-A student. Motivation matters. So do impressing friends, making the hockey team and finding the nerve to text the cute student in social studies.

“In lab experiments, you’re able to control for all factors except the one you’re studying,” said Dr. Willingham. “Not true in the classroom, in real life. All of these things are interacting at the same time.”

But at the very least, the cognitive techniques give parents and students, young and old, something many did not have before: a study plan based on evidence, not schoolyard folk wisdom, or empty theorizing.

 

the act of measuring one property of a particle (position, for example) reduces the accuracy with which you can know another property (momentum, for example)

 

 


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