At Partners in Healing (PIH), we approach reproductive loss and bereavement comprehensively. Reproductive loss includes a number of difficult experiences, including infertility, miscarriage, stillbirth, premature delivery, and unexpected fetal anomaly, among others.
Some losses result in death. Other losses feel like a death. Some losses are symbolic. For example, when a woman is told that she will need infertility treatment, or that her baby has an anomaly, she is experiencing profound loss. Often people experience more than one type of loss in their reproductive lives. This can also include complications in pregnancy or trauma during labor and delivery.
People do not “get over” a reproductive loss, but they can integrate the experience into what is hopefully and long and happy life. Telling the reproductive story is a must for healing. Too often people are afraid to tell their story for fear of burdening others or because others minimize or deny the physical and emotional pain caused by reproductive losses. This can lead to isolation, resentment, and depression. At PIH, we actively elicit the story and provide hope for healing and transformation.
It is insufficient to say that loss is difficult, as each person and each couple experiences loss differently.
We explore:
- Gender issues
- Psychological make-up
- Childhood trauma
- Medical trauma history
- Family history and dynamics
- Belief systems
- Social environment
- Spiritual beliefs
- Resilience factors
Our PIH team, including Dr. Deborah Simmons, PhD, LMFT, Dr. Nate and Dr. Nita Champion, ND, and Diane Tanning, RN, MS, L.Ac. provide clinical hypnosis, EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), acupuncture, individual and couples therapy, and naturopathic medicine to those who have experienced reproductive loss. We listen to our patients’ unique situations and partner with them in developing the most appropriate treatment plan. Many of our patients have found healing and new purpose.
We collaborate actively with physicians, nurses, acupuncturists, naturopathic doctors, and other health care professionals across the Twin Cities to ensure that healing is complete and that hope can spring anew for family building in the future. Dr. Simmons is available for professional consultation, as well. Compassion and clinical know-how ensure good outcomes at PIH. To schedule, call us at 763-546-5797.



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I often hear weight gain among the list of troubles of patients who are depressed. Sometimes it’s just a few pounds, sometimes it is more. Often, it is too many. It makes sense that depression could lead to weight gain; being depressed makes it more difficult to get out of bed and be active. Being depressed can make it harder to pay attention to what you are eating. People who are depressed often turn to food to make them feel good or for more energy. On top of this, gaining weight can lead to poor body image and self-esteem, which can leave people feeling more depressed.
Did you know that children’s and adolescent’s behaviors can talk?
It can be difficult to tell the difference between sadness and depression in children and adolescents because they share many common features. For example, a loss of interest in usual activities, sleep problems, body aches and pains, and problems in school or with peers are some of the more typical problems seen in children and adolescents who are either sad or depressed. However, feeling sad is a normal reaction to a loss or an unexpected stressor, such as the death of a grandparent or an impending transition (e.g., moving or changing schools).
It is not surprising that many women and some men suffer from depression and anxiety when faced with fertility challenges. The ups and downs of infertility and its treatment drain the spirit right out of people. I hear daily the intensity of the experience, “This is personal. I feel invisible in the world. This is physical. I hate my body. I am demoralized and afraid. This is expensive. I have no control and I feel out of control. This has taken over my life. I’m so worried about my relationship.”
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